Understanding Conduct Disorder in Children: Expert Advice from a Clinical Psychologist

 


Children are not always easy to understand, especially when their behaviour becomes challenging.


As a clinical psychologist, I meet many parents who are deeply worried about their child’s aggressive behavior, constant rule-breaking, or trouble with authority. These could be signs of Conduct Disorder (CD)—a serious behavioral issue that, if not addressed early, may affect a child’s future well-being.



What Is Conduct Disorder?



Conduct Disorder is a pattern of repetitive behavior in children and adolescents where they consistently violate the rights of others, social norms, or rules. It goes beyond normal childhood misbehavior.



Common Signs to Watch For:



✔️ Frequent temper tantrums or aggression toward people and animals

✔️ Lying, cheating, or stealing

✔️ Destruction of property

✔️ Truancy from school without valid reason

✔️ Disregard for rules and authority figures


One concerned parent came to me after their 13-year-old child was repeatedly caught lying, stealing, and getting into fights at school. The child seemed indifferent to consequences and avoided family communication.



How Focused Therapy Can Help



After a few sessions of solution-focused therapy, we focused on identifying the child’s strengths and small achievable goals. Steps included:

✔️ Building positive communication within the family

✔️ Reinforcing small, positive behaviors through praise

✔️ Setting clear, consistent boundaries at home and school

✔️ Teaching problem-solving and anger management techniques


Gradually, the child began showing small but important improvements—more openness to dialogue, fewer rule violations, and better emotional control.



Why Is Early Intervention Crucial in India?



In India, children face immense academic and social pressure. Conduct Disorder is often misunderstood as “bad behavior” or poor upbringing. Early professional guidance helps prevent long-term problems such as substance abuse, academic failure, or relationship difficulties.


Even a few targeted therapy sessions can help reframe behavior, provide practical coping strategies, and strengthen family relationships.



Simple Tips for Parents:



✔️ Stay calm and avoid harsh punishments

✔️ Clearly communicate expectations and consequences

✔️ Encourage positive activities that boost self-esteem

✔️ Monitor changes in behavior and seek help early

✔️ Avoid blaming—focus on understanding the child’s needs



Conclusion



Conduct Disorder is a serious but manageable condition when identified early. With professional support, even a few therapy sessions can make a lasting difference in your child’s behavior, emotional health, and future success.


If your child shows signs of aggressive or defiant behavior, don’t wait to seek support. Every child deserves a chance to thrive.




Contact:

Dr. Jithin K – Clinical Psychologist

📞 +91 73562 53311

🌐 www.drjithink.com


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